What’s the one thing parents want for their children? Happiness. Across the board, parents don’t want their kids to be thin, powerful or have buckets of cash — they want their kids to be happy. If that doesn’t speak volumes to why we are here, I don’t know what could.
There’s one simple rule to happiness, my Friend. And I’m going to share it with you.
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Plus, who wouldn’t want to develop their happiness levels?! It may be more important than ever, to work on our wellness now, but it’s always a thing. And it’s always going to be a thing. Because it’s the ONE thing. It’s the one thing that unites us… despite our many differences.
No matter how individually unique you are, or what specific happiness components you need, there is one KEY that RULES them all. And it’s SO EASY.
Sound to good to be true? Or do you know somewhere deep down that I’m right — that your happiness, feeling purposeful and good in your skin — really is as easy as a small tweak.
That small tweak haunted me.
Knowing, in my bones, that I could be happy, live my dream life EFFORTLESSLY, drove me almost insane.
I could sense there was this magic ‘pill’, habit, decision I just needed to MAKE and all would be well. But, I couldn’t find it. Anywhere. I trained with Eastern ancients and Western academics. I could find traces of it EVERYWHERE showing me it was REAL, but I couldn’t find a way IN.
I gathered all of the Western AND Eastern wisdom about inspiration, happiness, goals… I developed a brilliant theory worth massive scholarships. I knew everything I needed to do — but I couldn’t find the way to actually DO it.
Sound familiar?
I needed to develop the ONE thing that guarantees fulfillment: I call it “High Reality IQ” (RIQ+).
Your Reality IQ is the level of how much you viscerally KNOW, even if it’s deep down, that your dream life should be easy. Most of us are seriously deficient. I call it Reality IQ Deficiency (RIQ-d) and it is RIFE in our culture.
RIQ – d: Reality IQ deficiency (common)
RIQ 0: Base Reality IQ (high society)
RIQ+: High Reality IQ (masters of fate)
If you have developed the culture of RIQ+ within, you haven’t been infected by the RIQ-d of the world — or you’ve cured it — and you’ll FEEL the intelligence inside of you saying “THIS IS REAL. MY DREAMS ARE REAL. THEY DON’T HAVE TO BE HARD. EVERYTHING I WANT CAN BE EASY AND JOYFUL.”
If you feel that, you are the perfect candidate to grow into your happiest reality through developing your High Reality IQ. So how do we get there?
The Most Effective Tool to Ground your Inner Culture is Base Reality (RIQ 0).
RIQ-d is the reason you feel bad. RIQ-d is the culprit behind your dreams diminishing into dust when you had your hopes all up. Your “Inner Culture” dictates what grows in your world… and what doesn’t.
Think about this example:
- a Western force influences an Eastern one with a two-way open dialogue about problems and progress. The Western side has an idea which Western culture thinks is GREAT. The Eastern culture adapts and the idea holds? Why? Because the culture nurtured and supported it.
That’s you trying to make a big change in your outer world while tending to the inner one. It takes time and consideration, but it works smoothly.
Now consider this example:
- a Western force INVADING an Eastern one and FORCING the culture on it… What happens? Reluctant, resentful adoption of many parts of that culture.
That’s you developing RIQ-d from your parents, society, crappy philosophies… Your inner culture grows all yucky and you just can’t get FREE.
Now imagine:
- trying to change what’s happening in that place without tending to the CULTURE.
That’s you trying to make changes in your life and not understanding why they just won’t stick.
Just KNOWING that your Inner Culture is something you can cultivate, and is the root of your outer reality, is touching base with RIQ 0
4 Steps to Curing RIQ-d & Developing RIQ+
- Take the invading force out: get rid of RIQ-d
- Heal the wounds and bring your inner culture back to base level: practice gratitude to develop RIQ 0
- Get in touch with your own highest potential, ability and the inevitability of THAT reality: bring on the RIQ+!
- Live the DREAM.
This is why I started my brands! I left the massive scholarships behind and instead developed a METHOD to get (actually GET) to any BIG goal. EASILY. By tending to your inner culture.
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This quiz will show you precisely where your Personal Power of Gratefulness is at. Gratitude is an ADVANCED SKILL. Do not expect to be amazing at it from the start, and do not feel bad if you aren’t. Gratitude requires TRAINING. It is NOT just a feeling that comes & goes, it’s part of a HIGH Reality IQ (which society is currently deficient in). Watch the video linked above to know more.
You are not alone. We are with you. And happiness is easy with us.
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